We've all been where you're at --- finally experimenting with your hidden desires, and suddenly you're thrusted into a world of millions of terms and choices and you have no clue how to navigate. We're here to help you find the perfect Gay Sex Toy(s) for the beginning of your journey!

First and foremost - start out small. Sure, you may gravitate towards a 8+ inch Realistic Dildo because you're wanting to be able to take on a big dick and live out your fantasies of that hung pornstar pounding you, but the fact of the matter is that you need to work up to that point. Start off with a 1-3 inch Dildo or Anal Trainer Butt Plugs and then work up to the big boys.

Today, we will list the types of Gay Sex Toys that we recommend for beginners by Toy type.

Anal Beads

Honestly, we would stay away from Anal Beads if you're a beginner for just a while. Normally, they are for experienced men, so just keep practicing on Anal Trainers, (small) Dildos, or Butt Plugs until you are ready for Anal Beads. If you do want to use one, start off small and work your way up.

Anal Dildos & Vibrators

As we stated above, we recommend a 1-3 inch Dildo with a smaller girth to start out with. We know this seems small, but when you aren't used to things inserted into your bum, you need to start off small and master it before you move on to the next size. We recommend using the 1-3 inch Dildo for a month or so, then moving up to a 3-5 inch Dildo with a slightly larger girth, then a 6-8 inch dildo with again more girth, and so on and so forth. If you take your time and be patient, the reward will be great for both you and your partner(s) and you will be able to sit on just about anyone's cock!

Anal Lube

This is super important: We recommend only using water-based lubes for beginners. Mostly because it's probably the only Anal Lube you will ever have to use, but also because it's the easiest and has the least chance of emotionally scarring you from a bad experience. Water Based Lubes do not burn your booty hole, do not stain, aren't sticky, and are just all around awesome. Trust us, you won't regret it.

Butt Plugs

Butt Plugs are great because they're meant to get you used to them to move up to a bigger size. As with most of the other categories on this list, just make sure to start off at a small length and girth, and gradually upgrade to larges sizes as you get stretched out and more comfortable. Anal Trainer Butt Plugs are meant for just this, and a lot of the time you can get multiple Butt Plugs in different sizes to alternate between to get used to them.

Cock Rings

Again, this is another product type where you want to move up. Don't get the Metal Cock Rings that have spikes on them as a beginner. We recommend a cheap, plain Cock Ring made of Rubber. They're easy to use and you'll get the hang of how to use them and can then move into the more advanced Cock Rings, such as Prostate Massager Cock Rings. They're fabulous. Remember to use plenty of Lube so that you don't hurt your penis, we definitely do not want that to happen!

Douches

We highly recommend Bulb Douches for beginners. While the Metal Douches and Shower Attachment Douches are great, they're generally for more experienced men because they are more powerful. Any Bulb Douche will work, just make sure that the tip isn't too large and that you use warm (not hot) water and plenty of Anal Lube to help with insertion.

Masturbators

This is really the only category where we say it doesn't matter if you're a beginner, go wild with this one. Because we're talking about your lovely dick now, any of the Masturbators on our website are perfect for anyone - beginners to advanced. Especially if you're a top, Masturbators are great for practice and fun and we recommend all of them. Literally, every single one. You can't go wrong with them!

Prostate Massagers

Ohhh just wait until you try our Prostate Massagers. They provide more pleasure than you can imagine, and you'll be wondering why you haven't tried them ages ago. Just make sure you get one that has a smaller length and girth to start out with, and plenty of Anal Lube for insertion, and you'll be good to go. Go on now and purchase one and lock yourself in your room for a few hours. You're welcome!

Sheaths & Sleeves

As much as we love Sheaths & Sleeves, you probably do not have much use for one yet unless you want to use it for masturbating (which feels amazing, especially the Vibrating Sheaths & Sleeves). However, for using them during Gay Anal Sex, we wouldn't recommend it until you are more stretched out and ready for the extra girth. It can be a lot to handle if you aren't ready, sometimes a dick is more than enough, especially when you're new to getting dicked down!

*Other

As you will soon learn, there's a whole lot of other Gay Sex Toy options out there, we've only brushed on the top categories. From E-Stim, to Bondage Toys, to Extreme Anal Toys, there's a whole world of options out there for you, and it's exciting that you are just starting out. It's a fun process and you will miss the excitement of trying new things later on in life! Unless you have a specific kink that you need to quench, we recommend just sticking with the above categories until you have more experience. All of the above categories will get you into pro status real quick!

We hope that you enjoyed this blog post and we hope you feel more ready to delve into Gay Sex Toys! Let us know if you have any questions at all, we are here to help!